Everyone say’s “I want”, and most of us never think about the phrase. Like we expect people tom just give us what ever we are demanding. Most things we demand don’t even make a difference in our daily lives, and have no bearing on the outcome on our lives as a whole.
Never mind the rudeness of the statement and the potential disrespect and hurt feelings of the unlucky recipient to our demanding and curt tone. Why should anyone give us anything.
I think that if we just stop and think about what we are going to say or just how we are going to interact with other person, we might just make the conversation go a very different way, and who knows it may just change your day as well as the person you are talking to.
I challenge anyone that reads my inane babble and who cares about others around them to stop, think, plan, and think again then speak. You will be amazed at how much this will change the outcome of the conversation and quit possibly your day and the other persons day as well.
Try it , think about it, Imagine how you would feel if you were on the other end of “I want”.
Now below is something that is thought provoking and “I Do Want”
“I Want”
I want to move to her slowly, never taking my eyes off her. Watching every step she takes. The gentle sway of her hips, her long brunette hair, blowing in the cool breeze. As we approach each other “I want” to reach out and grab her hand in mine. Feeling her soft skin on mine as we finally touch and it sends chills up my neck and my hair stands on end, the beginning of ecstasy.
We move closer, careful not to bring our bodies to touch just yet. Our bodies so close , we can feel each others electricity. I look down to see her looking up at me, her eyes see right through me. They are like diamonds, they are the unique gift that was given to her, they sparkle like no jewel ever has. She is completely unaware that just by looking at me that she has captured all of me. I ache to breath in her intoxicating scent, I am starting to feel weak as I grasp her hand in mine. I clench it tightly now, tight but not to hard. Her scent makes my head swirl, my heart beat faster, so fast I feel it will explode. my palms get wet.
This beautiful woman standing with her hand in mine has all f me. As we move closer I move my hand up her to find the small of her neck. I feel the goosebumps, as she is trembling as well ,just at our touch. My hand reaches the back of her head as as I run her hair through my fingers. She rest her head in my hands.
I tilt her head back and stare into her eyes. I see the want I see the need. I see the desire. I pull her close, our bodies pressed together. I look to see her soft lips as I bend over to reach her , I get close but I just want to taste her. I run my tongue over her soft lips, enjoying the sweet salty taste.
Soon it is too much, our hearts are about to explode we are both moaning. This woman has all of me. I hope she knows how much I burn for her. We move in closer, our mouths meet, we close in on each other. Our tongues dance together our hearts beating as one.
Not a Good Friend,
I am not a good friend, I know this. I will listen to you, I will help you. I will go out of my way for you, I will dry your tears. I will empower you, I will give you all the hope you need to move forward, and hold you up as you do so. I will pick you up when you fall, And I will help fix your pain when you rise.
What I won’t do is, talk down to you , I won’t discourage you, I won’t belittle you. I also won’t give you any of my woe and sorrow.
That last part is what makes me a bad friend.
I have learned that in order to be a good friend one needs to share with the other. Talk and give of your emotional health to your friend. Share with them so they can see that you do have emotions and that you’re capable of being vulnerable. No one can do it all by themselves, believe me I have tried.
But for me it is very difficult to give that part of me out to just anyone, and for that I am truly sorry. I do value you, I do respect you I think you’re amazing. You deserve better, But after a life of let downs and disappointments , I have built a fence that can not be scaled. I simply refuse to let anyone in. Maybe one day I will open my gate and let the right person in , but until then I will to live in the dark and in an emotional void.
So I move forward in my quest to find myself and open my heart to let in or out the heart that so many are willing to give. Maybe if I can do that I will be able to actually live.
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